Saturday, January 31, 2009

Good Bye Grandma

It was very sad moment in my life. The first time i understand about death and life. Actually, both of my grandfathers have been die now, but it was about 5 years old on my age. And i couldn't go to there, because my sister had a national test. When i was 5 yo, my grandfathers died i didn't understand about cry or sad for someone die. But now I UNDERSTAND.

My grandma from my daddy died, and I'm 15 years old there. The stories began when i was 8th grade on my junior high school. My grandma got stroke and she couldn't walk, remember something, and think. Especially the important thing is, my grandma couldn't talk in BAHASA. When i got a holiday i went to Medan for visiting my grandma. I was very shock there when i saw my beautiful grandma is on the chair. Unpredictable, she known who i am. I was very happy for it. But, my grandma couldn't stand, walk, and anything that human has to do. At the morning, My grandma and I were going around the house. I asked my grandma in bahasa and she couldn't understand, so my aunt translated it to batak language. And she was happy, and we went around. When we were going to back, my grandma said to stop at the unknown house. And it was my grandma's friend house. The sad thing was, when my grandma and her friend did the same thing was sitting on the kursi roda. I didn't believe that her friend got the same illness. And her friend told me to take care for my grandma in batak language.

And in 6 January 2009, my grandma went to heaven. She is my grandma from daddy. When new year's eve, my whole family decided to pray for grand ma that "if God want to cure her, cure her fastly. But, if God want to call her, call her fastly too". And she went to heaven in 6 January. When i was back home from my course, i shocked when i see my mommy bagage. I asked my sister, and she said that grandma died. I didn't cry, my family in home did too. But when 9 january 2009, I went with my sisters to medan. It was sad moment. Because we saw her on the bed with the orange beautiful clothe, beautiful face, and beautiful eye. I didn't believe that she died, because her eyes. She was like sleeping. On 10 January we have to do the ritual and on 11 January we dropped her to her last place in Balige beside my Grandfather. I was sad but i was happy cause i could see my grandpa n grandma place. Hehe. And I have my last grandma. She is very kind. She is my grandma from mommy. Thanks for see this post. GBU

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